Having a healthy relationship is blissful and if you’re in one then count yourself as the happiest person on this earth.
Because not everyone, including me, is that lucky. 🙁
But you don’t know what “healthy relationship” actually means and want to confirm that you’re in a happy space.
Then, you’re at the right place.
As in this article, I’ll tell you 5 Clear Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship and hope that you’ll not have to relate to them. *fingers crossed*
5 warning signs of an unhealthy relationship that can save your future:
1. You are hanging out ONLY with your partner
It’s good to spend time with your partner.
But if you’re always stuck up with your partner, it can be one of the warning signs of an unhealthy relationship.
If your partner doesn’t let you enjoy without you on his/her side, then it means he/she doesn’t want anyone else except him/her near you and this is NOT acceptable.
Well, you’ve a life outside your partner and you’re not supposed to miss it for that one special person.
So, spend some quality time with your friends, go for movies with them or explore new places ALONE.
God forbid, if things go wrong between you and your partner then, at least, you’ll have a shoulder to cry upon. Right?
2. Are you snooping on your partner or vice versa?
If your partner’s ex-flame calls him or her or simply a name you don’t know pops up on the screen and you start racing your mind that your partner is cheating on you- Then why the hell are you with your partner? Grrrrr..
If you can’t trust your partner simply because someone may try to flirt with him/her is utter nonsense. It doesn’t mean your partner would act on it and betray you.
But that also doesn’t mean you can trust your partner BLINDLY. Trust your partner but always check.
If he attends the call in front of you, then calm down, everything is OK. 🙂
I do so every time someone calls me while I’m with my partner. Top it all, I tell them that I’m with him. That’s it.
Trust me, the smile your partner will give you after that is worth it. 🙂
So, before snooping on your partner, ask yourself why are you doing so?
3. When was the last time, you did what you love?
Don’t remember?
Then I’m sorry to say, but this is one of the many unhealthy relationship signs.
If you like painting, playing sports or you like having a game of pool every Saturday and you are not doing that – only because your partner DOESN’T like it.
It’s definitely a telltale sign of an unhealthy relationship.
You’re not supposed to change yourself or your likings for ANYONE.
You should spend time doing what you love even if you’ve to skip a brunch with your partner.
If your partner loves and respects you, then he or she will be totally fine with it and might try to learn that thing.
So that you guys can spend more quality time together. 🙂
4. You’re an overly possessive partner.
9. 00 A.M Calling your partner.
9.15 A.M Text sent.
9.30 A.M Again calling your partner.
Phewww..!!
If you can relate to this then you’re making your relationship toxic because this is one of the signs of a toxic relationship.
So, please give your partner some space and let him/her breathe, otherwise, he/she will space you out from his/her life.
5. You feel like you’re leading your life not LIVING it.
Have you ever heard of emotional vampires?
These indecorous characters thrive while sucking the life and energy out of others. If you’re feeling that your relationship is draining your energy and leaving you exhausted- then it is not a good sign.
You should immediately end the relationship.
Why?
Because, I agree, vampires are attractive and irresistible but don’t forget that they’re predators.
So, just ditch these stupid creatures and start living your life to the fullest.
Concluding Words
You know very well what you want from your partner, so if you’re not getting it, then just move on.
Because there are too many mediocre things in life and Love should not be one of them.
Also, if you see these signs of a bad relationship in yours, then you need to think about continuing it further.
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